How To Have Self Confidence – Tony Robbins – Stop Kidding Yourself…

Do you frequently feel uncomfortable inside social environments? Do you want to know how to have self confidence? Perhaps you are overly shy? Or your stomach ties up in knots when approaching someone even just to say “Hi!”

Well the great news is the fact that there are lots of methods which you are able to use that will help you overcome this problem of social shyness or anxiety. I’m going to share one of my favorites below. But first, we will talk about 3 essential points that have to be highlighted (so imagine them covered with ink from a vibrant yellow Fluoro highlighter pen…or what the heck I can actually do this myself)

1. Do not expect waking up with the confidence of Tony Robbins overnight. All changes happen in little small steps and actions. Make the effort to push yourself slowly just a bit every day. And celebrate your victories, no matter how little they’re. These small victories will help you grow into a more confident person.

2. The very best way to overcome a fear is by facing it. What I’m presenting here is the 1 method to develop the courage to face your fear. What you’ll need to do though is not only use it and stop here, but also search out an entire artillery technique also. And use them! Some methods may be more suitable for certain situations. I’ll give you more tips on this in a future article.

3. As always, if your social shyness or anxiousness is causing BIG problems and difficulties in your life, please consider speaking to a doctor or a specialist. They will be able to expand on this technique, and offer you with many more. They really can help.
So, as promised, here’s certainly one of my favorite techniques for helping you really feel more confident as around other individuals in a social scenario. It is extremely powerful and effective.

That power is compassion.

It resides inside all of us, although it lies asleep in the majority of people; it’s almost as a luxury we feel we cannot afford just yet. Perhaps something we’ll get about to explore when we get over our problems and start feeling happy about ourselves. But, how can we be compassionate towards others when we do not even really feel great about ourselves?

Is that what you believe?
Well, I think we’re better off by taking a look at issues from a different perspective. One that sees compassion not only as a tool for helping others, but additionally for helping ourselves.

So, how do we use compassion within this situation?
SEE THE OTHER People as if you’re looking at a mirror. They are JUST LIKE YOU!
They’re human. Somewhere within them they have fears, problems and concerns too. Their fears might not be visible to you on the surface, but they’re there. We’re all human. They are also stuck in the same box of society and this strange and challenging life. We are all trying to survive in this jungle.

All of us desire human contact!
We all want friendship!
We all desire to be loved!

So before approaching somebody, remind yourself that they as well might have difficulties relating to others. They might be waiting for someone to talk to about their issues and their concerns. They might be waiting for someone just like you, who can comprehend them and accept the with all their fears. Someone just like you, having a heart filled with compassion and love. And perhaps in time, if a friendship develops, you will be able to help them immensely in the future.

Why does this work? Merely because it takes away the attention off you, and places it onto the other individual. How are you able to help them? How can you be their friend in a time of need?

Obviously, do not force yourself towards them with these concerns straight. It really doesn’t matter what happens after. But it’s logical to see that it would not be suitable in most social circumstances to try to act as Mother Teresa around someone, especially in the event you don’t know the person. Just focus and try to create a space for them, so they might understand or perceive that they’re just like you. They as well are human.
Now that you know How To Have Self Confidence, go ahead and begin the conversation.
Talk to them, learn about them, and their interests. This may lead nowhere or probably, it could develop into one of the best friendships of your life. No one knows.
They’re just like you. So there’s no need to be afraid. They also want somebody to talk to. Help yourself by helping them!

You could let your shyness or anxiousness be a negative force of fear inside yourself, or you use it to let it build your compassion towards others who are also facing their very own demons. Choose compassion! In return, you’ll also be helping yourself to grow as a person and open your heart, this way effortlessly overcoming your own fears, one conversation at a time. To help YOU to get what you WANT in YOUR LIFE, we found a solution !!! Have you ever wondered how they earn so much money selling on eBay? Well have a look in this and you will be one of them aswell!
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32 Responses to How To Have Self Confidence – Tony Robbins – Stop Kidding Yourself…

  1. videoschmo says:

    This told me NOTHING about how to have self confidence.

  2. ruth rachel says:

    TONY ROBBINS doctrine is satanic: "Success is doing what you want, when
    you want, where you want, with whom you want, as much as you want"-
    quote from Tony Robbins. The law of Thelema is "Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the Law. The law of Thelema was developed in the early 1900s by Aleister Crowley, a

  3. babis dupakos says:

    u talk too fast and not clear pal :(

  4. stubo65 says:

    I don't think the title of this video suits the content of the talk.  IMO, a more suitable title would be "How To Change Your Focus For Results."

  5. Balinur Polatbekovna says:


  6. Irena Pusnik says:

    simply true

  7. Rebecca Abraxas says:

    love hearing him speak !

  8. Soullight86 says:

    Tony Robbins is using other peoples knowledge and sharing on. simple as. Like a good cult leader does. If people want real help see a professional. NLP has no scientific basis.

  9. Marwa Emad says:

    I feel this power and influence. thank you, Tony

  10. Marwa Emad says:

    I feel this power & influence. Thank you, Tony

  11. Marwa Emad says:

    I feel this power & influence. Thank you, Tony

  12. Hhhshw Jsuehs says:

    Who's watching this in 2015? Say I.

  13. Chelsea Campbell says:

    A Social Confidence Coach Reveals The Secrets To Making Effortless , Confident And Captivating Conversation With Anyone >=> <

  14. Ana Regine says:


  15. The invincibles says:

    I believe training is the best thing in the world if u agree with me raise your hand and Say I.

  16. Alex Savvidis says:

    Damn that was awesome

  17. Alex Savvidis says:

    Damn that was awesome

  18. Kainj1000 says:

    Agree 100%

  19. Zeenath Ismail says:


  20. Paul Leoni says:

    good stuff

  21. 4and20blackbirds says:

    When is Tony going to motivate himself to quit smoking? His voice is cashed.

  22. Bill Bateman says:

    "All the little stuff". It is true in all the areas of our life. Thanks for the reminder.

  23. irfan D says:

    This guy really know how to calm my mind and give true directions .. Wish i could meet him .

  24. Sububababa says:

    He sounds like Kermit The Frog on morphine

  25. Tony Vega says:

    Tiger seems to have lost his talent though. I can't help but wonder what people without talent can do. How do you motivate someone who does not have the talent to become good at the things he or she is interested in? No one is going to tell me you can develop talent. Einstein didn't become Einstein by studying really hard. Some people study enormously hard, but have such great difficulty reading or comprehending that they don't see any results. My guess is that Einstein didn't have that problem.

  26. Denzel Henderson says:

    DenzelHenderson the motivationalspeaker

  27. Marissa Copenhaver says:

    u know there are people working against you to work against you, tell me what to do to change it, change the bad in it, my think that they are negative.

  28. Pindar The Enlisted One says:

    thats great i needed to hear this

  29. TheAdultChild101 says:

    Motivational Speakers suck balls, people. They tell you how to do things when they themselves don't do shit. You actually pay for this? You're an idiot if you do.

  30. Nana Dansoa says:

    I needed this today! Raise Your Standard! #dansoamarketing   #greatness  

  31. Amy Milly says:

    I wasn't to meet him sooo bad. He is awesome.
    Love tony